Unwanted sex is also called rape it is clearly one sided, against the law and morally wrong.  Sometimes there are grey areas when we do not want to have sex. We don’t want to be tricked into sexual activities either.

Getting someone drunk with alcohol or spiking someones drink with drugs is the most commonly used ploy. It’s very selfish and wrong.

We do have to be careful with our socialising after all sexual activities are only legal if both parties are consenting.

Sometimes, when two people are having sex, only one of them is a willing partner. ‘Unwanted sex’ covers situations when you’re unsure about wanting to have sex but do it anyway, through to times when you have been forced into it. You might feel confused about either scenario. If you could say no, why didn’t you? If you couldn’t say no, was it sexual assault if no physical force was used? There’s a difference between flirtatious persuasion and sexual coercion – learn how to avoid crossing that line. Like most sexual issues, it comes down to communication.

Communication – Talking and listening

Good communication is fundamental to your sexual and reproductive health. It’s about developing the skills to express your needs to your partner about what you do and don’t want. It’s about sourcing accurate information, and learning what questions to ask when deciding if what you are reading, hearing or seeing is reliable.

You’ll usually need to check your facts: what other sources are out there? And where can you go if your parents or school aren’t giving you the full picture? The Internet, for example, offers lots of answers but it also raises just as many questions. Just how credible are the sex health websites you visit?

Unprotected Sex

This could be the main reason why people  decide that they do not want sex. Just because your sexual partner is ignorant of the infection risks they are subjecting you to.