(Q) What is oral sex?

(A) sexual activity in which the genitals of one partner are stimulated by the mouth of the other

Rimming:

The act of rimming  (Arse licking) – The anus (arse hole) of one partner is stimulated by the tongue and lips of the other.

It is clear that receiving stimulation is pleasurable and for some who gives may also. Giving maybe more difficult to explain. Not all gay couples take part in rimming for some it’s a turn off and for some a turn on.

So why do gay couples rim? The obvious one is foreplay preparing the anus for the penis to enter the anus called anal sex.  But by far the most important reason is your want to please your partner. Personal hygiene is clearly important for someone considering rimming. However as I said earlier what is difficult to explain is what puts you off actually in a sexual aroused state may turn you on.  I would never lick someone who has poor hygiene even the tought of tasting faeces (shit) is stomach churning. But in a sexual aroused state this can change and where you want to taste bodily fluids. Even when its against your better judgement. It’s as if going against what you are prepared to do become exciting. This can also be the same with swallowing or eating semen. The thought of the idea can be stomach renching but during stimulation it becomes something you desire.

Risk: This is a high risk for transfering  infections or getting a upset stomach.

Blow Job: the sexual activity of moving the tongue across or sucking the penis in order to give pleasure

Rug Munching: Girl on girl oral. She is eating the vagina with hair, similar to eating a carpet

Sex is about giving and receiving you would be classed as selfish if you are not prepared to give.

Alternative to rimming is fingering using lots of lube.

There are many health problems that can result from practicing unsafe anilingus, because of the presence of bacteria, viruses or parasites on or in the anus or rectum. These include Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia infection, poliomyelitis, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, Herpes simplex virus, conjunctivitis, and other sexually transmitted diseases. Applying the mouth to the genitals immediately after applying it to the anus can inadvertently introduce the bacterium Escherichia coli (”E. coli“) into the urethra, leading to a urinary tract infection. HIV/AIDS is not believed to be easily transmitted through anilingus, although experts assert that there is a risk of acquiring HIV from anilingus.

Frequent anilingus with casual partners increases the health risks associated with the practice. Generally, people carrying infections that may be passed on during rimming will appear healthy. Parasites may be in the feces if poorly cooked meat was consumed. Hepatitis A traces in feces apply only if the infected person has eaten contaminated food. Hepatitis C is rare although possible if the receiver has trace amounts of infected blood through his/her anus or feces.

If the receiving partner has wounds or open sores on their genitals, or if the giving partner has wounds or open sores on or in their mouth, or bleeding gums, this poses an increased risk of STD transmission. Brushing the teeth, flossing, undergoing dental work, or eating crunchy foods such as potato chips relatively soon before or after performing anilingus also increases the risk of transmission, because all of these activities can cause small scratches on the inside of the lips, cheeks and palate. These wounds, even when they are microscopic, increase the chances of contracting STDs that can be transmitted orally under these conditions. Such contact can also lead to infections from common bacteria and viruses found in and around the genitals and anus.

Another recent study suggests a correlation between oral sex and throat cancer. It is believed that this is due to the transmission of HPV because this virus has been implicated in the majority of cervical cancers. The study concludes that people who had one to five oral sex partners in their lifetime had approximately a doubled risk of throat cancer compared with those who never engaged in this activity and those with more than five oral-sex partners had a 250% increased risk.